
Scene set up:
It is a hot, humid day in September. A Lady hangs her head down, looking shamefaced at the computer in front of her…
If you were in my kitchen right now looking at me, that is pretty much what you would find (well, and some dishes in the sink, papers on the counter…Don’t judge me…)
I have finally found my way to Butterscotch Lady after a bit of time away. Ok, let’s be honest (because we can all check the date of my last posting), since July 23rd!!! How did all of that time escape from me without a loud cracking sonic boom? Shouldn’t I notice that over 7+ weeks have passed since I last sat at my computer to chat with you?
Ooohhh, wait a minute, I know what that sound was that I was hearing: waves lapping on the sand, children’s laughter in the water, “Mommy! Watch this” over and over (and over and over…), crickets at night (ok seriously! How loud are they?). It was the sounds of summer and I just could not escape them (nor did I really want to)!
As Baby Girl would say, “This was the best summer EVER!!” What made it so great that I was willing (and obviously able) to ignore all of you?
Buddy, for 6 years and Baby Girl, for her first year, continued the family tradition of spending 8 weeks at the beach participating in the “Surf City” Jr. Lifeguard program. I was in the program from the ages of 10 to 16 and they truly were the best way to spend summers.
Living as close to the beach as we do (3 1/2 miles), we think it is important that our kids know how to respect the ocean and how to survive in it. Anyone that has spent time in the ocean knows that it is very different from swimming in a pool. Buddy was a Safety Aid which means that he helped with all activities that other Jr. Guards participated in. (He earned 50 volunteer hours as a Safety Aid!)
Of course for me, it meant I took some fantastic pics of Buddy helping Baby Girl. Some of them just make me want to weep seeing the love and protectiveness between them (with a teen and ‘tween, it happens less often than I would like).
I also made a wonderful new friend through Jr. Guard’s. She and her son are Canadian and are living here until December before returning to Ottawa, Canada. It is such a sweet surprise at my age to feel an instant connection to someone and to know that we will be lifelong friends no matter the distance that may separate us.

A little Butterscotch Schnapps and Hot Tamale never hurt anyone! Cups came from Smart & Final. They are the perfect size for shots, er, um I mean for SIPPING!
I know, I know, summer has been over for a couple of weeks so what is my excuse for still not doing a post? My kid’s schools, soccer…You know the feeling of just resisting getting back into the regular routine of homework and practices, volunteering…I think I block out every year just how BUSY the start of school is for all of us.
Now that we are into our 2nd full week of school, I am beginning to find my sea legs again, routine wise. Maybe I should tackle those dishes in my sink now or stop by my girlfriend’s house who has a free table I can re-finish…?
Whoops! No time! I have to run to pick up Baby Girl from school.
Time really does fly by!
See you again, very soon. I promise!!!
Until next time,
Butterscotch Lady
PS. Baby Girl just turned 10 yesterday and we are in the throes of party planning. Looking forward to sharing her party with you in a couple of weeks!
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